He smiled at you… with his eyes on you. You ask yourself, is he flirting with me?
Or he just enjoys girls a lot?
It is not hard to gauge a man whether he is straight or a gay. (He will let you know just in case you get the wrong idea.)
So, you’ve established that he prefers women. You started assessing him physically.
He is not bad looking. In fact, a good boyfriend material.
He has all the qualities you would like on a partner. Good grooming. Gentleman. Stable.
He smells good. He always lets you inside the elevator (but then, all the women receive the same treatment.) He has no ring either.
Everyday, you’re getting addicted to his smiles.
What’s the reason why you’re not pouncing him? You still need to be sure if he’s flirting or just being too nice.
How to tell if he’s into you?
There are ways to find a man is really interested in you:
1. When you smile back, he visibly brighten. His eyes twinkled along with his happy grin when he sees you. Take note that he does not do this to other girls.
2. He asks about your mobile number. And text you right away. Of course, you’ll text back since you’re also interested in him.
3. After sending back and forth of text messages, he’ll ask if he may come to your home. You will say yes. (Yes and yes, haha.)
4. He brings you flowers and chocolates. No man would buy flowers and chocolates for a mere friend and so it is safe to think that he is wooing you.
You, as the girl, have a responsibility in the whole flirting process. Do not go hot and cold towards him.
If you’re really attracted to him, show him. Welcome him to your home graciously. Introduce him to other members of your family.
Be sure to send the correct message: that you also like him a lot.
Do not ever think of yourself as superior to him just because he is humble and respectful to you. Remember, he wants to be your partner for life. Treat him like that.
Show him that you feel flattered because he picked you from the rest.
If you’re sure he is really always courteous and thoughtful, then HE is the one. You can let yourself fall in love with him… deeper. 🙂
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